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Online dating reviews

 I have used online dating for over 13 years. From 2013 to 2026. I call it quits now. I have gone to hundreds of dates or chats. Either I lose interest or they lose interest. One lasted 2 years. Most lasted less than a year. What I have learned is that online dating is not a place to meet a partner. Maybe it's a place to hookup.  The apps I have used  Muslima.com  Muzz Facebook dating  Match Okcupid  Pof  Hinge Salams I challenge every dating app to come up with this query. What's the percentage of members who have been on the app for at least a year and who have found a relationship that lasted at least a year. My guess is it would be less that 10%. But the whole idea of going to an app to meet someone is bad. Most people in those apps are unhappy. They have a list of demands. It no longer appeals to me. 

Full quran

  Pre-Understanding I don’t need to say: if god wills. It feels weird. Even. If life wills. I intend. It is understood… The only time it is mentioned in the Quran is in regards to haughtiness, pride. If I don’t have it, then it doesn’t matter. The Quran is a joke. If the quran is revealed or any book, it uses the language of its time. Maybe at that time gods and devils meant a lot in people’s minds. In today’s terms, it would be ego, unconsciousness… Eckhart Tolle just said that he wrote the course in miracles. Not him. But if he identify with the one consciousness, then he did. Then that explain the quran where that entity takes credit for things that it did not do. The one consciousness said: “be the change that you want to see in the world.” It is always a judgment with this god, with this Quran. The Quran is just positive thinking, common sense. The real teaching, inwardly, is always the same. Different communities express it differently. The quran could have come f...

Quran Verses on Charity

  The example of those who spend their wealth in the way of Allāh is like a seed [of grain] which grows seven spikes; in each spike is a hundred grains. And Allāh multiplies [His reward] for whom He wills. And Allāh is all-Encompassing and Knowing. Quran 2:261 Indeed, the men who practice charity and the women who practice charity and [they who] have loaned Allāh a goodly loan – it will be multiplied for them, and they will have a noble reward. 57:18 My explanation. There is more from where that comes from. If I feel abundant, the universe will send me more. Everything is for the freeing of the ego as well, to enter more into presence and detachment. 

Quran Chapter 2 Esoteric meanings

  Section 2:25 Give good news ˹O Prophet˺ to those who believe and do good that they will have Gardens under which rivers flow. Whenever provided with fruit, they will say, “This is what we were given before,” for they will be served fruit that looks similar ˹but tastes different˺. They will have pure spouses,1 and they will be there forever. My Explanation: It is the culmination of my thoughts that are coming back.  Section 2:61 And ˹remember˺ when you said, “O Moses! We cannot endure the same meal ˹every day˺. So ˹just˺ call upon your Lord on our behalf, He will bring forth for us some of what the earth produces of herbs, cucumbers, garlic, lentils, and onions.” Moses scolded ˹them˺, “Do you exchange what is better for what is worse? ˹You can˺ go down to any village and you will find what you have asked for.” They were stricken with disgrace and misery, and they invited the displeasure of Allah for rejecting Allah’s signs and unjustly killing the prophets. This is ˹a fair re...

Quran - Esoteric meaning of stories

  Beginning to say is that the quran, as I see it, the only meaningful interpretation is the interpretation in esoteric terms. Other times, no religious books has any meanings beyond that. All that you will be left with is doing, doing till one dies. Esoteric understanding of the sciences requires no doing at all.  1st proof: Abraham 6:78 Then when he saw the sun shining, he said, “This must be my Lord—it is the greatest!” But again when it set, he declared, “O my people! I totally reject whatever you associate ˹with Allah in worship˺. My explanation: This is a story of enlightenment. We do not worship things that sets like thoughts. They go up and down. My true state is one that doesn't rise and set but that is always here, in the present moment.  2nd proof 6:80 And his people argued with him. He responded, “Are you arguing with me about Allah, while He has guided me? I am not afraid of whatever ˹idols˺ you associate with Him—˹none can harm me,˺ unless my Lord so wills. ...